So i havent blogged in a while but as you all know i recently turned 18. After all the glitz went away i was left with myself and my thoughts. ive recently been reevaluating my life, where i am, where i want to go, and who i want to have along side me on this journey. i also put alot of thought into my standards and what i will and will not stand for. all of these thoughts brought me to think about the one question every woman asks herself at some point in her life. Why do/did i settle?
Is it wrong to have a list, and have high values? Why not weed out all those people who you know aren't worth your time? Why do women settle and then post status' on facebook like "all men are dogs, men suck, men are liars"... the truth is this. Some men are dogs, some men cheat, some men suck, most are liars, but some are great. Those select few who meet the standards of your list can work for you. But, we always settle. Nobody's perfect, but theres someone for everyone. We dont find them because we settle. Then complain when there not everything we hoped for. Stop blaming boys and blame yourself for not being confident enough to turn guys down. I mean what, you think there wont be more?
Neway, i refuse to settle. And if that makes me stubborn, or whatever other word you can think of, then i'll be that. Because in the end were all aiming for the same goal, happiness. This is the only way i see myself making it
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